My further opinions (hah!)
It just really pisses me off to no end knowing that it's not "what you know" it's "who you know and who you blow" in this world. If I got busted for swapping porno emails, whether it's with my gf or with coworkers, I'd be so shitcanned with charges pressed, paychecks garnished, etc...it wouldn't be funny and I'd spend the next 8 years digging myself out of that. Instead, I watch people get away with stuff like that all the time.
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As for the single mom with kids, I don't have much sympathy there either. This isn't the 50's where it's ok for a woman to have 4 kids and no job because generally, back then, the guy would handle the business. Those days are gone and if I'm smart enough to not get a girl pregnant (without being married and without protection) causing us to get married because of the kid (wrong reasons 1 through 10), then girls can be smart enough to keep their legs together. Too bad there aren't many guys like me (in this area) where they feel it's their duty to get a girl knocked up and there's so many single moms with kids (I work with a 20 year old who has THREE FREAKING KIDS) who have sob stories about how guys 1, 2, and 3 left them (yeah you think they'd get the picture after the first kid, definitely the second) after banging them repeatedly until she got pregnant and are now looking for "the right man to take care of me and accept me for who I am and no man will ever come between me and my beautiful kids" which translates into "all sugah daddeez, come to me, I have some life left in my used engine, just pay me money while you're gone and I'll be fine and my three beautiful kids, who don't come from the same dad, will be moving in too".
Yeah, the system overall sucks ass, IMHO and you can tell I'm NOT an advocate of state-funded support (except in the most extreme of cases). Forget the past gfs who wanted free rides, the gf I'm with now has been down the path of bad times but has no baggage, no kids, pays her own way in everything and supports herself wholly. THAT's a real woman to me! WOOHOO!
Disclaimer: this is not a rant on women. I have full respect for women who prove themselves (just like guys have to prove everything to a woman) as decent people who aren't out trying to bum a free ride, have 10 kids, no job, etc...the rest can rot on the curb for all I care and so could the boys (not men) that did that to them. Thanks for boosting stastistics, dude, you could've just wrapped it and not have her eject another sorry human being into this already overpopulated planet! That's where I really feel sorry...for the kids who suffer their parents dumbass decisions.