Spy program...

[t2k2]

I think that you should first take the straightforward approach. He will respect you more if you are open with him, and it will work out better for you both, especially if he "fesses up."

[valhallen]

You don't really give us very much info either......like what age is your son?
Maybe he ain't looking at porn at all - maybe he is just chattin with his friends and doesn't want you to see? Much the same as he wouldn't want you listening in on his phone calls!!

If you entered the room and started reading his chat convo of the screen it is basically the same thing!! Would you like people reading your private msgs? Or spying on you?? No I didn't think so - so why are you going to do it to your son?

Instead of being so sneaky why don't you just ask him about it? Don't seem angry or annoyed just concerned and you may find that its not as big a deal as your making out!!

v_Ln

[carbonlifeform]

I think you should insist on talking about it to him first, before you go
into spying or making demands on him. You might save some of that
father-son relationship.

I personally routinely closed my monitor when I lived with my parents
even if I was just chatting with friends when my parents came to my
room... IMO parents don't need to know everything their kids do.

[scoobs108]

Heres a good spy progam if u feel the need to use it.

Spytech spy agent

completely hiden to the untrained eye, can be renamed to look like your average system task if looked open by the task list
moniters keystroke,takes pictures at set intervals,moniters icq, aim, all web activity incluing downloads and web pages vistited,and much more.

the best one out there i think

heres there home page http://www.agent-spy.com/

[xpaciscool]

wtf iz this bullshit, this guy obviously iz trying to ask you guys for a spy program , not to spy on his son! He also obviously haz posted posts like this before because he waz BANNED from antionline. what iz with you people! you give me neg points. I think the antipoint system iz bullshit itself, god damnn!

[elfc]

lame.....

[Bug_Master]

in my point of view it is kinda normal that an adolescent has curiosity in acceding porn sites or related stuff, but before taking some action, you should see if he became an habit or if it is sporadical (if you see the temporary internet files you should get a ideia), I do not find that a frontal aproach either good ideia therefore is probable that your son get resented, perhaps you should be more dissimulated make him understand that you already have suspicion of what he is doing and dont approve it and probably it will be the sufficient for it to be constrain and to stop.

I do not advise to you to use trojans or any type of software that is invasive therefore never knows if he see any application of it and start to use them for its proper ends. (Like spying on friends or You)

I think that is better to teach him to respect women and not to see them as an object overall teach him some life values.

Search the internet to see advices from people specialized in the subject.

But you must be the person who knows your son better therefore you will know how to act in the time 8)


Hope this help,
Bug_