While online today i found some tools that you all may like.
http://www.visualware.com/emailtrackerpro/index.html
^this tool allows you to track e-mail sent to you. The site lets you download an eval version and also there is a tutorial on how to use it on the site.
http://www.visualware.com/download/i...ml#visualroute
^this link takes you to now only a place to download the first tool, but a place to download a couple more. there are how Tos for each one so enjoy.