My brother and I would like to share our files. They are music, movies, etc that are too large to email. He does not want to install a freeware vpn, b/c most of them have very little security across the internet. Is there a way we can do this? We remote to each other using MS remote assistance, but the cable connection is not fast enough to allow us to watch movies from each other. Even if it was, we don't want the other person to interupt what we are doing. Is this even possible? We both have Belkin wifi routers (we use its fw), win xp sp2 (fw disabled), greater than 1.8ghz machines, greater than 1/2 G ram, cable internet.

Any ideas would be great, thank you!