Also regards to the stuff about being 'fishy'...let me explain some more, basically my friend and I have been great for friends for several years and we are not dating. We wrote a hell of a lot of mails to each other in that time, again i was nieve in using webmail so much and that account was hacked and the mails were sent out to lots of people These were personal mails between myself and her. This is where someone somewhere has obviously read them and lost the plot completely. It could be anybody! This guy? seems to want us to stop talking completely. Btw this isnt one of her friends or one of mine we've gone through everybody with a fine toothcomb. Anyway if i even so much as look at somebody online on a dating site as an example (not login, register or talk with anyone), she'll get ane mail about from this person with all kinds of threats ands so forth. I've obviously had to try and stop any kind of web surfing that would provoke him to send her more stuff and its very hard, even the simplest stuff can do it..

When i said about the email being full of unrelated stuff i meant the following.

If i send a mail out where i write to a female friend he seems to zero in on these and use the information that is sent back to me or sent from here. I dont know which because i have very little information on what he is actually writing. The authorities are keeping all the information held until they get more information on the culprit. This is equally frustrating for me because i want this stop as much as my friend this is way beyond me and my knowledge about how some weirdo can be snooping my system like this...

Anyway when i said i had sent an email from work to here, i sent 2 words in it and on the surface you could think they were women names (very very loosely related) and they were infact real estate developers.....this person thought they were women and wrote to my friend again threatening her saying i was upto this and that with these 2 people which clearly i wasnt.
The fact that they got hold of the information after it had arrived here which only i knew about tells me it has to be something on here, given the fact they seem to get information from all kinds of other activity aswell.
This particular example cant be keylogging unless he has installed something at work which he may or may not of done, i think its very unlikely given its got about 100$ million dollars worh of secrutiy and a 24/7 dedicated IT team monitoring that stuff..

Anyway hopet he extra information is useful, i am all out of ideas apart from the webpage thing which like i said previously i will give a try...