I don't use Windows, however I believe that this : http://www.ipswitch.com/products/WS_Ping/ ; may be along the lines of what you are looking for. It would seem that this is a pretty comprehensive suite of utilities.
There are some decent web based utilities as well. I don't know that any of them give you control of the switches you could pass to the command, but the tools work. Check out :
http://nitrous.digex.net/
http://codeflux.com/tools.html
http://www.visualware.com/visualroute/index.html

I'm sure that a good google search will turn up more if you're interested..

Regards,
Chefer