heres yoru answers :
1) I don't own a webcame, now will i ever own a webcam or have one in my house.
2) They are saying my conversations like as i am typing them(below is a true example, although some of the words may have been worded differently and i forgot his screename.


me: hey buddy, have that copy of warcraft 2 alpha for me
him: yeah, i'm sending it to you now... might take awhile... you have 56k right?
me: right
<i accepted the file transfer request here>
me: thanks
me: hey i want to try something on your alright?
him: i'm afraid lol... what?
me: this person says they can see what i type on my aim conversations, so i am going to say something that makes no sense.
him: alright
me : cheese grows on pineapples
------end this conversation------
------5 seconds later i get this------
spy: cheese grows on pineapples, what does that mean exactly?