Men were made to **** women, women were made to **** men. Obviously, that's the way nature meant it to be. I believe, however, that human beings are able to arrouse themselves by doing almost anything if they allow themselves to recognize those desires. This doesn't end with having sex with persons of the same sex, this limited narrow-mindedness also manifests itself when other "different" sexual desires are concerned. People should just be able to **** what they want to ****, without any social/religeous limitations, as long as the creature (if concerning a living being) really wants to participate, is able to communicate those desires, and is in a mental position to judge if this really is what it wants.

Genes do dictate that we are supposed to be attracted to the other sex to ensure reproduction. I can see how theories about this getting mixed up are valid. Saying this would mean gays are a "mistake" of nature (what turns you on is something else). I think transgenderness, although not the same, certainly is a related issue. When talking about relationships, I think human beings are able to love any person, to any degree, no matter what sex, as long as they are mentally free enough to do so.

Of course, a person could also be made "gay." I find it no surprise that, for instance, a person sexually abused, by a person of a certain sex, for their entire youth get sexually screwed up. This wouldn't only manifest itself as avoiding a person of that sex, but also in being attracted a person of that sex.

To conclude, I think there are two types of gay/bi people. Those who were genetically defined to be gay, and those that were externally formed (by traumas, cultural sexual narrow-mindedness or other experiences) to be gay. Please know I'm talking about being gay as in having serious relationships with people of the same sex. I'm not talking about having sex, as I think anyone being open to it, and mentally free enough, is able to get aroused by the most "weirdest" things.

Thanks.