OK. I found it, and for all those who had the same problem as me, and wanted to know how to do it, and not fanny about discussing whether the milk should be put in before the tea, or after....
Right, if you want to be a Richard Cranium Esquire, please feel free. You have made two fatal errors:

1. What operating system?
2. Precise details of the nature and release number of your applications software.

So, your post does not necessarily help those searching the forum after you?

And the milk goes in first, but at least you would make a safe suicide bomber..........with that lack of knowledge of the chemistry and physics of the real World, I know that I could just detonate you from a safe distance.

Incidentally, has it ever occurred to you that if you fail to grasp user requirements and preconceptions in a commercial environment, you may well spend the rest of your life waiting for the jolly green giro every fortnight? (that's a welfare check for our North American friends). It is a hard World Jonny, trust me............................