Network configurations for a mailserver
I've searched on Google and the forums of AO for mailservers and network configurations but still can't find what I'm looking for.
If I want to run a mailserver at my own domainname, behind a firewall / NAT router, I probably have to add some portmapping configs to my firewall / router. My question is: isn't this an open relay server? because if there's one thing that I don't want, it's an open relay. What configurations do I have to make in my network to run a "non open relay" mailserver and is this possible.