hey the_JinX ill take a crack at that.
the pope's dictums are meant for "good" catholics. that is those that follow the teachings of the catholic church and not those that pick and choose which of the teachings they will follow (well i like six out of the ten comandments...). the church say's they will not engage in extra or pre marital sex. considering most places require an aids test before issuing a mariage license, catholics should not be part of the aids epidemic if they are following their faith. the pope does not advocate or condone one being a part time catholic. either you is or you ain't!
