its just like i told my uncle - you are homeschooling your kids all the way until college? You call your son honey and sweetheart? wow.. your son is going to be a mouthy little sexually confused pissant one day with no real understanding of the world.
imagine this - no school, your whole life, then you go to college and try to function. ugh.
The whole red ink thing being scary is no big deal. they wont do anything about it . and by they i mean the gov't. this has been brought up before. they know whatever color they change it to it will simply mean that color is feared now. In all actuality, i like to see red on my paper instead of some other color, from a distance - that way im not dissapointed when i go up there. (no i dont have tons of red on each paper, but some on most.)
Anyway, mel is right - i'm a strong believer in raising your kids to function well in society, whether by whipping them, or just punishing them harshly, and treating them like their age should be treated, instead of like babies there whole life.
For instance, my mom would watch me get hurt, like fall off my bike or something when i was younger. Wait for a minute, let me cry or yell or something, and then come and see if im ok. Then she would clean up my boo-boo and tell me to go back outside and play. This kind of treatment will keep your kid from being needy later on in life, as well as from being a p*ssy like mel said :)
