Yes, TH13 keeps trying to scare me telling me all the loss of freedom and how she becomes the boss. He also keeps stressing the importance of condoms for some reason... ;) I keep telling myself that any happily married man offers the same advice... because I'm hearing it from about a dozen others. Some of them have even offered to chip in on a plane ticket to Mexico and know people who can get me "papers". I hope they are meaning for the travel expense for the honeymoon...Quote:
Originally Posted by thehorse13
Congrats HT! I'm really happy for you. I hope you plan a long engagement. We opted to go for two years in order to plan and save $ for the wedding. So far, I've learned a couple of things about wedding planning. Rule number 1. Stay out of it. 2. Pick your tux style/color (matching her brides maids), 3. Have some input on the place where the ceremony and reception will be. 4. Stay out of everything else. If she askes your opinion on something, state two obvious facts that you "like" about the choices and then ask her what she thinks.
Example: table napkins: choice = white vs pink
"Well honey, the white would match the table cloth but the pink would match your flowers. What do you think?" <she gives her opinion> "I see... Great points! I also agree." Done.
