Wow, that was refreshing. Been a while since I have seen a question that was actually well thought out before it was posted. Now, seeing as you called this thread "putting it all together..." you have gotten quite a bit of good advice, but its in a lot of different places, so...
learn an OS (not just how to point and click, but learn it)
learn to program
learn new technology (internet/networking technology especially)
set goals
experience experience experience
People used to complain about the old MCSE NT4.0 certification. You could read a couple of books and get the certification. Why is this bad? Because certified people didn't know **** about what they were doing. They were getting paid good money, and had no idea what they were actually looking at because they had never seen it before. Reading is great, but retaining that information is hard if you don't actually use it. It is also hard to understand if you don't know why you need it. If you can, test your knowledge in a controlled environment (home network if you have more then one computer and your family will let you).
The goals thing is also very important. Stay on the right path and decide what you want to do. Besides benchpressing 400 pounds (I never got past 380 ;) ) what do you want to do? Network Administration, System Admin, Security consultant, etc etc? Decide where you want to be in 1/5/10 years. I know this may seem crazy at 14 (I was there once) but it makes a difference. Once you know what you want to do, you can start specializing in what you want to learn.
Anyway, if you continue to make well phrased questions, you will continue to get good help. Your off to a great start, so keep it up. Oh yeah, btw, the guy in Enemy of the State doesn't exist...
