Hi MsMittens,
Exactly what I tried to convey to him before...that there should be an expectation that the person is willing to help himself as well as being helped...as guardian alpha himself said...the people who help are NOT their parents and can't be expected to act like parents and wipe every little nose that can't be bothered to find a kleenex themselves...sometimes you have to wipe your own nose.Quote:
especially if it's the same member over and over and over asking simple questions?
I completely agree.
Eg :)
