AAAAAA, two cents goes a long way. Though my parents should have, they never divorced. I failed in marriage 2 times. My oldest 2 children are 22 and 18 now. We shared week-ends and were very open with visitation. They are both fine and we talk alot. For the second failed marriage, well much a different outcome. We divored, she took my son with her to public housing, by the time he was 3 he cursed better then me. Her and i got together to get him out of there, only to split ways again. That day we looked at a boy of 8. She said she wanted him, i said i wanted him. Guess what? We left him decide. My son and i still live here, he is my best friend. She calls about once a month. He is now 12 going on 21, haha. I have this to say. Never let out the children, they have a choice deep inside that must be heard over the fighting. Second, "single parenting is the hardest but most rewarding thing a PERSON can do" Stick with it Deb, Ask the child his wishes...........
