need an advice

MalteseFalcon

Please take some of what we say on trust. There are a number of us here who deal with this sort of thing on a regular basis. Please don't expect us to explain why guys like this do the sort of things that they do..................maybe it gives them some sort of sense of power or control?.........I am not a psychiatrist or psychologist.

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I don't have reasons to suspect that he has access to my PC.

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It would be REMOTE ACCESS via some sort of trojan, back door or spyware. You probably would not notice it, and most standard security packages would not either. We have suggested several (FREE :D ) tools to use. Please be sure to update them first and then reboot and run them in safe mode they are specialist tools, and look for different things.

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Even more, if he is soooo mad with me, why woudn't he mess up with my PC?

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That one I CAN explain!......................assuming that he is some sort of control or power freak, if he messed with your computer you would get it fixed and the security improved, which would deprive him of his amusement. He HAS to be cautious?

From what you say your computer may well be OK, and that all that has happened is that he has gained access to your internet accounts.

What we have suggested should prove if that is the case.

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Then there's one way he got it - you got trojaned.

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I already explained how it's happen and gave links to those who doesn't believe that it wasn't a trojan

[quote]It would be REMOTE ACCESS via some sort of trojan, back door or spyware. You probably would not notice it, and most standard security packages would not either. [QUOTE]

When I said I don't suspect I meant that he didn't happen to reveal any information or photos wich I have only on my PC.

Hi MalteseFalcon

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When I said I don't suspect I meant that he didn't happen to reveal any information or photos wich I have only on my PC.

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No, if he is cunning he would not, as that would give him away? What we are worried about is that he might have installed something remotely that he has not used yet, or has only used to access your internet accounts...............these people are very sick, you cannot accurately predict their behaviour :(

The links you posted would certainly make me run all the scans we have suggested. He obviously goes to malware sites, and those might just be to lull you into a false sense of security?

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full scn by "ewido" didn't show up any trojans...

If he let me know the e-mail I could contact him... I guess he wants to be contacted by me
I sent him my work phone number.
Let's see

EXCUSE ME!!!

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If he let me know the e-mail I could contact him... I guess he wants to be contacted by me
I sent him my work phone number.
Let's see

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This guy is harrassing you...making your life a living hell...he e-mails you and you send him your work number...

Are you friggin' insane?

Now I believe this is just BS.

What exactly is your agenda?

Eg

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What exactly is your agenda?

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I think no matter what I do, while I don't know who that person is I am and I will be vulnerable
I think he is mad with me because he didn't get appropriate (by his opinion) attention from me.
I think he let's me know about things he is doing because he wants to get at least any kind attention from me.
To play games with work phone number is not so easy, especially because it's not a direct number and he would have to speak with secretary first.

I think that's not the case which I can ignore,
the more I ignore him, the more mad he gets
that's why I went to the police and I am trying to find ut who he is.

Hi EG~

I think that MalteseFalcon is a lot smarter lady than some may think................it is a lot easier to trace a phone call, particularly if it is long distance :D

MalteseFalcon , please run the A-Squared software as well, It is a specialist anti-trojan and dialler product (free!) so it is very different from EWIDO. They complement eachother.

In these situations we tend to take a systematic approach and attempt to eliminate as many possibilities as possible.

If that comes up clean, then I would say that the attacks were simple social engineering, and we can take it from there :)

You don't give your work number out to a stalker unless you have a wish to become quickly unemployed...and...

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To play games with work phone number is not so easy, especially because it's not a direct number and he would have to speak with secretary first.

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he has to go through the secretary...and you think that's a good thing...that it makes you more safe...that he can't do as much harm that way?
Hell...if this is true then he must feel like he just won the friggin' lottery...he's got the one card ( the work number ) that can really screw up your life and you handed it to him on a silver platter

Something is wrong with this whole senerio.

EDIT: Hi nihil,

There are faster and easier ways to find out exactly who he is without putting your job on the line. I've known many people who lost jobs because they were harrassed or checked up on by the girlfriends/ex's.

It's the domino effect...first the job...no income, there goes the house, no job, there goes the car, no job, there goes the wife, etc... ) the work number is the most dangerous number because it has the potential to do the most harm.

Eg ;)