Sexuality

I went to the bar last night and as a test, I asked all the women I saw to "breed" with me...

Well, I got slapped 17 times, turned down 42 times, ignored 13 times, and laid twice....

It never ceases to amaze me how people will react to something that is different...ie homo, bi, or tri(sexuality)....there are those who see it on an everyday basis and are immune to it like seeing someone on the street smoking. Others see it for the first time and act like tourists and gawk. It's generally the latter that gets a lil nuts and crazy. The former more often than not just ignores it b/c it's none of their business. I've seen more things than any normal person has a right to see, but it's those experiences that make me see things a lot differently now. When i was a wee whippersnapper....i was a dumb cornfed hick, but now that I have experienced these things i think of myself as a mature individual. I think the one thing that applies here is that don't knock something that you haven't tried yet, and respect others that choose to try something different. Some of the people that don't respect others like that get really nasty labels such as....racist....sexist....etc...etc

Btw just for the record......trashy pick up lines do work a hellah lot better than trying to be all nice and cuddly. Women seem to react more whether it's for better or worse they actually react and don't blow you off. Women that generally go into bars generally are not looking for a serious relationship and are there for the same reason guys are....they just hide it better :P~

there speaks the voice of experience!!!!!!
Marit tends bar for a living when he isn't breaking his 98 box or pretending to pay attention to the prof in class

I attend bars to spend my living... Is that close enogh?

/me pokes marit with a needle....Just practicing for tomorrows tattoo...

I must agree with many of the posts already submitted... I really don't care what your preferences are as long as you don't use them to hurt another or try to force them on somebody else. And most of those instances are few and very far between.

I have several "girlfriends" who are bi and they're some of the best people I have ever met. But that has nothing to do with their sexual preferences, it's because they're nice people. At first my wife was uncomfortable around them, but she has come around and now enjoys their company as much as I do.

I also have a cousin who is gay. He visits about 3 times a year and brings his significant other with him. We all go out and have a good time. I know he's family, but I have no reason to treat anybody else differently than I do him.

And for clarification, (as to "forcing" your preferences on somebody else) I have been hit on by several gay men. No problem. One would not take "no" for an answer and we had a discussion, but I see that situation no diffreently than most men who go to a bar and hit on a woman repeatedly even after she says no.

Your life is your life. Live it the way you want, and damn the rest. Life's to friggin' short to have to worry about what some a$$ thinks about you.

well no matter what you argue on her for or against homo/bisexuality its still hard not to see that theres a major double standard. your out walking in the park and you see a girl and a guy making out, being the nice civil person that you are you dont really take alot of notice of it and mabee even try and avoid the close vacinity of them. later when your walking back you see two guys making out. (ok this here is JUST the male perspective, mine spacifaly but fairly male in general) you cant help but gawk and gag. ewe sick. then LATER (youd think that youd have learned to leave the park by then, huh?) you see two girls making out. hmmmmmm interesting, take notes, mabee a couple of mental photos. this is just the double standard that there is that is taught to us from birth.

this kind of standard sucks. but then my oppinion on the matter is this: my best friend is bi. she (yes, yet another bestfriend duo of opposite sexes) is hot, shes great. whenever one of her friends asks her whos her best 'girlfriend' is (you know in that way that all girls have girlriends) she says me. so natuarly i got alot of questions about being gay. but there in lies the hard part. im not gay. but on the other side of the fence in not totaly strait. ok heres where it gets confusing, im not bi either.......... (right now im single so im fairly omni-sexual or mono-sexual, however you wanna call it) im in search of love. where i find it is of no consequence to me. if its a girl great, girls are beautiful and great to have as a friend. on the other hand if its a guy, then its just as great cause i found love and thats all that matters to me. i done mean to be crude but if i have to use exit only and an entrance then thats just something ill have to deal with when it comes time. till then it dosnt bother me. i dont spend time thinking about what itd be like (sex with a guy {tho i have to be perfectly honest}) then at the same time i dont spend a whole lot of time thinking about sex with a girl. for me its the relationship thats the important part, how i interact with them. a sexual relationship is something entirly diferent from a relationship with a person. you can go out and ***** everyone at the bar and not feel a thing toward them other than happy that you got off. but then you can have a relationship with another guy thats closer than anyother girl youve ever been with and just not the sexual part that is so expected now-a-days. they are two seperate entities and your sexual preference is of no consequence on the non sexual relationships you have. guys love their fathers in a non sexual way, girls love their mothers in a non sexual way. whos to say that i cant love anothe guy as much as i love a parent? who says that cause i love them it has to be sexual?

there....... my views took longer than i thought it would...... he he he ;)

About sexuality, well, I'm hetero christian, so I am against homosexualism, but who am I to jodge, I'm not perfect and it's everyone's own choice. Oh, and I know some gay males, and they are definetly way better friends that hetero males (well, usually) :)

But I have a guestion that has something to do with this post... well, for a few months I've been really attracted and interested (yup, definetly The big thing 'love' :p) of this girl and she feels the same for me, but she unfortunately lives in another country, so we have met over the net. Well, I was just asking does someone think I really could have a chance some day to, ummm, marry her? Could it really be possible? I've heard that one couple got to know eachother through net, but most ppl say it's just not gonna happen. o well :rolleyes: me's just little freak