Some questions about relativity
Well, there are some questions about relativity/the speed of light that I have.
We all know about the example of brother A and brother B. Brother A stays on earth and brother B goes off at the speed of light. When the brothers meet, they realize less time has passed for brother B.
But who's to say it's brother B that sped off? One could be perfectly justified by saying that brother B wasn't moving and it was in fact A that was moving away...or they were both moving. If any motion is relative, who knows who's really moving?
Or we could make it a bit different. Lets say you have some galaxy that somehow stays together while rotating at a significant portion of c. If brother B turns his ship around and goes against the motion of the galaxy, in my spaceship it looks like B is the one staying still (when B started, he was moving with the galaxy) and A is on the planet earth going at breakneck speed. So then I should see brother A as younger, and brother B should see A as older, but then you could say that brother B should see A as younger because A was moving away at almost c. Either way, outside the galaxy, I'm one hell of an old fart when they see me.
So how do you decide who is moving? And wouldn't you have the two brothers each thinking that they were the younger one, and that they were both the older one, at the same time? Hopefully I've managed to make some snese with my question, so can anyone help me out with how this works?