Check out http://nomarriage.com/ and give me your thoughts. Are american women as bad as this guy thinks they are?
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Check out http://nomarriage.com/ and give me your thoughts. Are american women as bad as this guy thinks they are?
well,
as someone who is madly deeply in love, and more than likely soon, going to get my heart ripped out - (uncontrollable circumstances) i would have to agree with alot of things mentioned on that site. most things prior to my current relationship i wanted very badly, but now - and knowing where its heading :crying: - things are in a different view,
the things on that site seem to be warnings for those of you who have not experienced it. and once you do, are too old or "comfortable" so to speak, to change anything. luckily, if everything does go to ****, im young enough to be able to restart a life, without most of the things the site warns about.
Furthermore, Love Sucks Badly - its something that has a way of burning you no matter what, and my relationship im talking about, its perfect, its happy, but and its not something i can see or stop (which what really annoys me) so.... yea, just ride it out :(
CTO
The old Soundgarden quote comes to mind when I read this guys site:
"Love's like suicide....."
Anyway, I dont think that American women are that bad. I have just come out of a relationship and I get along fine with my ex. This guy sounds like he has come out of a terrible marriage or relationship. This guy basically makes it out that women are the root of all evil.
This says it all:
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American women..
- highest maintenance (I've never heard of a foreign bride demanding her husband buy expensive house & cars)
- fattest in the world
- most likely to cheat
- highest rate of divorce (60% - US-US marriages; 20% - US-foreign marriages)
- largest payout in divorce court (you'll be ass-raped for everything you earned, plus most of what you will earn for years to come)
- bitchiest
- most likely to nag constantly
- most likely to believe in feminism and "equality"
- most likely to hate men
- spend least amount of time with her children
- worst at cooking and cleaning
- ****ed & chucked by tons of guys before tricking you into marriage
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American women who think you should be treated like princesses by rich handsome men have priced yourself out of the market.
LOL...so which is it, we should work, or we shouldn't? We should expect to be taken care of (and then be called 'princesses') or we should be career-oriented (and then be called undesirable to most men)?Quote:
The point is, women in their 30's, who are career oriented, are extremely UN-desirable to most men, as wives. Those women are getting more and more undesirable as the years pass...in fact by about 35 they are more or less out of the running completely.
I would consider it a compliment to be considered "undesirable" by this man. He's an idiot.
BTW, this is only one example of his inconsistencies and blatantly one-sided opinions. To be honest, I read a good portion of the site, with my husband, and we laughed our asses off at it. It's just pathetic.
I think it's clear this "man" just wants a woman with no ambition, no self-worth, no career, no goals in life, etc...
...and NO, I am NOT a feminist...not even close. :)
Have you ever stopped to consider that the guy has had a series of very bad relations ships? I think you are being too hard on the guy. Maybe it's the area I live in, but I can see where he is coming from just from personal experience. It’s hard to find a sane woman, into what I’m into, is physically attractive and weighs less then I do (at least around here in Southern Indiana). I’ve seen what this guy is talking about in some of my friend’s relationships, as well as my own. Which brings up the topic, where do you meet good marriage material women?
Can't think of what to write so found the next best thing, someone else's words. It said so well that I can't even elaborate on it...
Robin Williams - Good Will HuntingQuote:
If I ask you about women, you'd probably give me a syllabus about your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can't tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy. You're a tough kid... I'd ask you about love, you'd probably quote me a sonnet. But you've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you. Who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel, to have that love for her, be there forever, through anything, through cancer. And you wouldn't know about sleeping sitting up in the hospital room for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes, that the terms "visiting hours" don't apply to you. You don't know about real loss, 'cause it only occurs when you've loved something more than you love yourself. And I doubt you've ever dared to love anybody that much. And look at you... I don't see an intelligent, confident man... I see a cocky, scared shitless kid.
Or where do you meet good marriage material women that like geeks? :pQuote:
Originally posted here by Irongeek
Which brings up the topic, where do you meet good marriage material women?
True, thanks for putting a finer point on it.Quote:
Originally posted here by CXGJarrod
Or where do you meet good marriage material women that like geeks? :p
AO...where else?? ;)Quote:
Originally posted here by CXGJarrod
Or where do you meet good marriage material women that like geeks? :p
After reading this web site, it is clear the author has some issues. Not with women, but himself. It seems to me whenever somebody has to blame others for shortcomings, lack of life or being an idiot that person is all the things he is professing to hate because he does not like to admit the kind of person he is.
Generalizations are nice if you are a tool. Not all women are fat, frigid, mean, spendthrifts and other mean things outlined on this web site. The author needs to get his facts straight. Some people are spendthrifts, frigid, mean, overwieght, underweight, have low self esteem, and all the things he tried to lump in one little catagory: Married Women. The fact is, all walks of life including race, creed, color, sexual orientation, job, or whatever can be any of these things described, but that does not give somebody the right to say such things when there is no evidence to back up such claims.
You cannot blame women if your marriage has gone to ****. That's right, not all married couples or people in committed loving relationships are miserable pieces of ****. I have known people to be married 40-50 years and still cannot live without each other. The secret to marrige is to think of others before you think of yourself. So what if your wife is not in the mood that night? So what if she did not make you a gormet meal? I have a suggestion... maybe if you did something like make a nice dinner and thought about her for a change maybe that will get you some, huh?
This book may as well be Mein Kampf part 2. It is filled with ideas hoping people will buy into the bullshit, but in the end, are proved to be an idiot.
For the most part, I doubt that's very local. There are comparatively few geeks in my area, much less female ones.
Actually hes wrong, Whist I don't intend to get married, Rather just live with a lifepartner etc, I think its best that both partners work, Rather than one staying at home looking after the kids etc, that way both partners share the responsbilty for bringing money into the house and it doesn't go all **** up if the bread winner(usually the male) is fired/unable to work etcQuote:
The point is, women in their 30's, who are career oriented, are extremely UN-desirable to most men, as wives. Those women are getting more and more undesirable as the years pass...in fact by about 35 they are more or less out of the running completely
Most marriage problems have something to do with the concept of marriage itself and not with women, or men for that matter. It's a rediculous generalization of millions of women and millions of marriages in the western world.
I flew 5,000 miles to marry my wife (and she's sane, definitely into what I'm into, I find her attractive, and she definitely weighs less than I do)... nobody's saying you should stay local, IronGeek :DQuote:
Originally posted by IronGeek
Have you ever stopped to consider that the guy has had a series of very bad relations ships? I think you are being too hard on the guy. Maybe it's the area I live in, but I can see where he is coming from just from personal experience. It’s hard to find a sane woman, into what I’m into, is physically attractive and weighs less then I do (at least around here in Southern Indiana). I’ve seen what this guy is talking about in some of my friend’s relationships, as well as my own. Which brings up the topic, where do you meet good marriage material women?
Let's face it: how big is the chance that the woman of your dreams lives in your own town?
That would mean that out of 4 billion women in the world, the one perfect woman lives only a few miles away... that chance is close to zero, I'd say... think global! Yay!
Rationally, I guess your right Negative. I seems to have worked out well for you, but traveling that far for something that may not work out seem like a big risk. Then again, sometimes risks need to be taken. Wish the pond around here was bigger.
Risk? The world is very small these days. You can get to know someone on a very deep level using chat software, webcams, ip2phone, etc. before you meet someone physically.Quote:
Originally posted here by Irongeek
Rationally, I guess your right Negative. I seems to have worked out well for you, but traveling that far for something that may not work out seem like a big risk. Then again, sometimes risks need to be taken. Wish the pond around here was bigger.
the only problem is after all this time getting to know someone via web etc, and then finally meeting them, they could turn out to be exactly what you didnt want. even though it seemed perfect via radiowaves :p
shhhh, don't let Negative hear that... :pQuote:
the only problem is after all this time getting to know someone via web etc, and then finally meeting them, they could turn out to be exactly what you didnt want. even though it seemed perfect via radiowaves
American women? It must be that I live in America. I thought all women were evil...