a simple question i cant manage to find an answer for why do people need a Gf or BF.
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a simple question i cant manage to find an answer for why do people need a Gf or BF.
Well...you don't ! But it's nice to have one anyways...unless you're speaking in the natural sense of being social pack animals and being geared toward reproduction. :)
SEX.
Oh and tons of other things. Humans seem to be built to have at least one mate. We dont have the social part all worked out but evolution is proly working on it.
I agree with Egaladeist, you don't *need* one. Anyone who thinks they *need* one should seriously take a look at their life and mental / emotional state.
A mate should be a nice, complementary, addition *to* your life, not your.......life.
**Edit: Except...I need you, Negative (now that I have you) ;)
I *need* my laptop.
My girlfriend is just a bonus. A module if you will, that can be inserted and removed form the kernel of my life.
Using your metaphor, beware with what you insert into your kernel. Some patches cant be removed after except by re-install the kernel :) Those fix are called "wives".Quote:
My girlfriend is just a bonus. A module if you will, that can be inserted and removed form the kernel of my life.
And some GFs can be a malware that , if patched to your kernel, it will suck all your life, steal your money and crash your kernel.
Carpal tunnel syndrome. ;)
Women for all the beauty and wonder are perpertual pains in the ass. And why would anyone want a perpetual pain in the ass? :p Because the intereaction of someone special is a wonderful feeling.
Nice backstroke there mathgirl. :D
Because when you find the right person, you have something you can never have alone. Not that you couldn't live just fine without it, but when you add the right person to the mix of an already happy and successful life, you get something amazing. However, looking for that person to fix your life will never work. You have to know who you are, and what you want out of life, and where you're going, and find someone that fits that ideal. If you try to force someone to be what you think you need, neither of you will ever be happy.
It's really rather simple....
Women were placed on the planet to remind men how much fun they could be having if that damned testosterone hadn't kicked in and made them get all horny.
Men are placed on this planet to remind women how much nicer the world would be if they didn't have their damned maternal instinct.
That's another great point. I think it's a tragic mistake to think you can change a guy (or girl). That's a big no-no. When you have expectations...that someone will change....you just set yourself up to be disappointed.Quote:
Originally posted here by debwalin
If you try to force someone to be what you think you need, neither of you will ever be happy.
I think the real question is: Sometimes I have wondered.. why do i have a girlfriend.. maybe its because i am drunk when i think that, and wish for the old "random hookups," at parties :P
some single people really want a gf and lots of people who are dating want to be single lol. well im one of the people who is just looking for the right girl but, that is not the total focus of my life.
Hmmmm...................
Well she can iron shirts better than me...................but I iron all the slacks (you have to be able to shave on the crease).....................and skirts, but I do not wear those.........honest :)
She eats what I cook..................
I only operate with "wives".................I am on my third and last :D
My experiences
Now...you see nihil...I was right all along...you do like many wives ! :D
Let's see...Asking "Why a BF or GF is kind of like asking 'Why is Love.'" Let me attempt to answer you a bit more philosophically....
1. So we'll have someone to blame that strange smell on, besides the dog.
2. Because we, as testosterone-laden, logic-driven creatures, have a profound desire to have pink fluffy things about our households and don't want to get teased about it by our friends.
3. Because they, as estrogen-laden, emotion-driven creatures, have a deep-seated need to stop us from cleaning car parts in our kitchen sink.
4. Raising a GF or BF is easier than a kid, because you don't have to deal with the stinky diapers... Ok, well, most of the time anyway.
5. So if we're home choking on something, there's a good chance there's someone there with us so we don't die from it.
6. So we won't eat that last ice-pop in the freezer, we will eat 'vegetable du jour' (that being whatever diet is in style today), and we don't have to worry about staying thin to impress someone.
7. So we can, on rare occasion, get 4am sex without having to worry about what we've dragged home from the pub.
8. So we can save money by not going out to shows, nightclubs, or pubs, and have someone to spend it for us too!
9. So you'll have someone to hold your hair back when you throw up.
10. So we will have a built in 'bed and foot warmer'.
11. (and the flip side) So we can get up on time by being gently awakened from a cold foot being placed in the middle of one's...
12. So that no Christmas, birthday, or holiday of any kind, nor any Friday or Saturday night will be spent alone.
13. So we'll have someone to wake us up from napping in the recliner in front of the ball game so that the household stays 'fixed'.
14. (and the flip side) So we'll never have to call a repairman when our household projects go awry...
15. Because every man, at least once in his life needs to experience stockings left drying on the shower rod.
16. Because every woman, at least once in her life, needs to experience the cold shock of a toilet with the seat left up.
17. Because thunderstorms suddenly become MUCH more fun with a GF or BF present.
18. So we'll have something to do when the power goes out.
Special thanks to Mrs. |ce for helping me with this list. I hope it helps explain it a bit better. :D
I have one thing to add : Coffee and a smile first thing in the morning. Its always nicer when you didnt make the coffee yourself