A Universal Matter - Girls

[souleman]

Of course I understand girls. How else do you think I became the cyb3r_p1mp.

It isn't really possible to explain them though. Basically, to understand a girl (or a girl to understand a guy) you both have to be fully accepting and trusing of the other person (good luck with that one). It isn't something that happens overnight. After a period of time, you will realize that you know that person better then you know yourself. The scary part is that they know you better then you know yourself. She will make you expose parts of yourself (no, I don't mean whip your d1c* out) that you didn't even know about you. And you will make her bring out parts of herself that she didn't know existed. You will truly know eachother.

That is the only way to understand anyone. You can make generalizations like... All guys think about is sex. or All girls think about sex more then guys, but don't admit it. But generalizations are complete BS until you know why a person is like that. And with each person being an individual that is shaped by their life experiencs, no 2 people are the same.


t2k2---I just read your post, and it looks pretty dang close to what I said but I am not married.

[Natasha69]

Manpreet;

"MOST" Girls are as good as you are to them? You treat them right then they will reciprocate the same way....
(meaning NO: lying,cheating,acting macho in front of freinds... just the basics and im sure you will do fine!

But...you may have to just put up with a little extra "stuff" But that all comes with the package...

"Well i dunno thats just what i think "


Tash

[debwalin]

What on God's green earth makes you guys think women are so hard to understand? We are no more difficult to understand than men are, and if you would take a little time to get to know a girl instead of trying to see how fast you can get her into bed, it won't be hard to understand us at all.

Deb

[Conf1rm3d_K1ll]

Originally posted here by debwalin
What on God's green earth makes you guys think women are so hard to understand?

Sorry, Deb. I didn't understand any of that.....

[qwerty_smith]

lol@conf1rm3d_k1ll.

manpreet> honesty. be yourself. dont be fake. if she likes you, she does. otherwise, move on. that is the way. there is no understand. women and men are only a stereotype of themselves. understand that and you will get to know everyone.

[rcgreen]

instead of trying to see how fast you can get her into bed

Have you ever noticed that men never accuse a woman of
"trying to get him into bed", but it is the most common complaint
coming from women?

I grew up in the "modern era" when we have been told that
both genders have an equal level of sex drive, but it just
ain't so, and that is the source of all the heartache.

[geepod]

how can you understand anything that bleeds for 5 days and dont die !

no seriously, who says we are meant to understand girls ! I have trouble understanding myself. besides you cant group girls or boys or men and women into a generic understanding.
We are all individuals and that is what is great, just when you understand someone they go and surprise you anyway and if you do understand a girl you can bet the next one will be different !

just remember life is short so live every day until you die !
this may be your only shot at ti so concentrate on yourself and getting it right and everything else will just come along with the journey ! what will happen will happen !
Just enjoy !

by the way one by one those dwarf penquins and their little pickles are stealing my sanity !

[manpreet]

Honestly speaking, I think I have a better chance of making a security tool that can prevent any unauthorized access / intrusions etc, or may be design a site that works in every browser / device imaginable than understanding women

I was 'google'ing around, and see what i got

[carbonlifeform]

As I always say understanding starts with RESPECT.
And then you have to be a good listener. And know
what emotions are.

What's hard to understand is not women, but emo-
tions, which women are more in touch with. Men
often just go and explain everything with some kind
of logic(good or bad) and in contrast a woman might
tell you how she feels...

[t2k2]

Originally posted here by debwalin
We are no more difficult to understand than men are, and if you would take a little time to get to know a girl instead of trying to see how fast you can get her into bed, it won't be hard to understand us at all.

Deb

Well, about the whole "get her into bed" thing - it wasn't a big thing for me prior to my marriage. Over the years, I came to find that there are women that want to "get a man into bed" just as much - if not more so - as any man would. As a matter of fact, some of the most scandalous incidents I have beared witness to have been carried out by women. I was in a position to see a lot of this since I had many female friends that were actually just that, friends - I was just an easy person for them to talk to, but I never claimed to understand women. As some have already said in this thread, I am still on a journey to understand myself and my purpose.

Yes, women make "booty" calls just as much as men.
Yes, women cheat - sometimes for a reason, and sometimes for no apparent reason other than they can, or maybe they got talked into it by someone who had the gift of gab.
Yes, women have casual sex relationships with nothing else in mind but to get a little bit of d1c*.
Yes, women compete to see who can "hit it" first.
Yes, women sleep with friends (one person, then their best friend, just because they want to see if they can get away with it, or just to see how much of a conflict they can spark up.

I could go on, but I won't. You get the idea. Now, please understand that I am in no way saying that all women are like this. That would be just like the common stereotype of men - "all men are dogs!" LOL Of course, the fact that so many women fall for this stereotype, but are just as scandalous, doesn't help men to understand women any better. This is a bit more of a twist to understanding women than you think. Of course, you can't look at it from a man's point of view. The women I have come in contact with tend to be more emotional creatures. Other than that, I agree with you about women being not much different from men - other than the "boys have a penis, girls have a vagina" thing like from Kindergarten Cop with Schwarzenegger...getting off the topic, but anyway...that's just a little bit of input from me. Take it for what it's worth. I can only speak from my experience, not for every man out there, of course.


Take care.