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January 6th, 2006, 12:32 PM
#21
Absolutely terrible, my sincere condolences.
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January 6th, 2006, 01:22 PM
#22
i am so sorry and as i writte this answer my tears just flow.
i dont know you and probably will never meet you but 3 days ago was my father aniversary.He died when he was 28 and i was 4 and half and my mum was pregnant 6 months with my sister.
It is undiscrabable to tell you how i feel when i hear that somone so young so full of life and potential goes.
Reminds me everyday to appreciate life and everyone around me, doesnt matter the race, colour or gender.All our values in life and priorites change overnight.
All this superpowers and wars and bullshit is just what it is: bullshit, waste of time and resources.
Life is so beautiful but it can be so damn cruel.
It doesnt pass the day when i dont ask myself why me???why my dad?why so young??What did i do to deserve it so young?
But life has to go on.There are always billion people who are in worse situation then me.
So have to stay and look positive, its no the other way.
I have two kids 7 and 9 yrs old and i try to be the best dad i can be in the world.
But being father i feel terrible thinking of you and your situation.
I wish to express my condolences to you and your family and all your friends.
My saying in life:
EVERYTHING IN LIFE HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
Take care my friend
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January 6th, 2006, 09:46 PM
#23
Originally posted here by nihil
You probably don't believe, but I do, so I shall have a mass said for her.........
It is very bad when they die that young, even if you don't know them, there is still that feeling of loss?.................wasted potential and opportunities.........
I have buried a lot of my relatives, but they were in their 80's and 90's............that is a lot different IMHO.
She believes, and was a Catholic. Her services will be held Weds. at the local Church. So mass will be held there, and I appreciate your prayers.
Thanks, Nihil.
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January 6th, 2006, 09:59 PM
#24
Damn Jack...
I wish I'd be around the last few days... my thoughts are with you and yours...
You know I'm always here if you wanna talk...
Take Care,
HT
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October 20th, 2006, 01:15 PM
#25
The cause of death was found. After a long investigation, it was found her liver was not processing oxycontin correctly for her migraines. Therefore, a toxic level was the result of her death.
No foul play or suicide was ruled.
Either way, she got her new headstone, and gets visits from her family and friends.
It is hard to believe it is almost a year since she passed away, and Christmas is going to be very hard. It was hard enough with mothers' day, birthdays and the like. However, we have warm thoughts and memories when she was around.
May you rest in peace honey.
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October 20th, 2006, 01:46 PM
#26
Hi Donk~
Sorry, but thanks for the feedback.............just checked my list, and she is there.
November is "All Souls" in the Christian Faith.......I will put her in the books and she will be prayed for every day.
Naturally, a Mass will be said.
Johnno
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October 20th, 2006, 02:58 PM
#27
Jack, I'm very very happy for you that it was ruled not a suicide. I know that your pain is still horrible, but what a relief it would be to me to know she didn't choose to end her own life. And since she was Catholic, I know that's a really really big deal to them. I'm very glad for you. I hope knowing the cause of her death gives you some peace of mind.
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October 20th, 2006, 03:17 PM
#28
nihil, thanks. Yeah, her mom's side of the family who is devout Catholic is doing mass for her as well, so the more the better I suppose. As for her dad's side of the family, they are agnostic and coping with it in their own way. To what ends, I am not too sure, because I have little contact with them. According to my wife, her ex tends to hold it all in, but everybody deals with it differently and I cannot judge that.
As for the immediate family here, I am agnostic, but respect her religion and follow the rituals required in her faith. These days, I have been questioning my faith anyway, because death does that kind of thing, you know?
Debs: Yes, it is still very fresh, and seems like it happened yesterday. I have been talking about this with my shrink, and he suggested family counseling for grief. It has not happened yet, but we will do it when the time is right.
Thanks once again for reading.
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October 21st, 2006, 02:54 PM
#29
I'm so sorry Jack.
I don't even know what to say. If theres anything I can do, let me know.
Real security doesn't come with an installer.
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October 21st, 2006, 04:16 PM
#30
my ex-gf OD'd on heroin on her bed...
life is a MF'er, i feel for you, keep your head up
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