The "hard way" normally means going out and finding it on your own.

I think in the time you are spending here, arguing about your story and its validity, you could have gone out onto the net(as many before have suggested) and found all the answers and more to your 'situation'.

But instead you argue and argue, you feed the flames, and in the end you get your answer.
I bet going out to any search engine would have yielded better results. The reason why people get so pissy is because you did not explain your situation clearly(changed a few times), you asked the same question after others had given you prefectly good answers(go to google and search, but apprently this was not good enough, as using a search enging is HARD)and then you came back for more.


Just my opinion, and you know what those are like