yeah i know im a newbie all that jazz, and i have looked at the tuts...got a bout 200pgs printed out for easy reading...
BUT..
my question is this: what port does msn messenger use...?
i mean when i talk to someone and use netstat -an or any other of the netstat options, i dont really follow...
so any help would be nice..im just trying to figure some of this out myself, not looking to violate anyone
thanks