I use mail forwarding from a domain name (not for any dubious purpose) so my home email goes from my ISP's mail server to another mail server and then out to its intended recipient....at least that's the theory. Anyway, my problem is this - when I mail my friends at a certain technology company (and it's a big one), my mails vanish. I've talked to them and it's because their mail filters look at the path my mail has taken, interpret that as either spoofing or relaying and then delete the mail. This is intensely irritating as I have to log onto my web based email to resend and if I do that I can't send attachments. Anybody know if there is a way to get round this. Sorry I know this isn't exactly security, but there has to be a way!

Cheerio

Englishgirl1