http://www.astalavista.com/tools/cha...pearingAct.exe

Ever accidently allow someone to add you to their AOL buddy list? Ever just want off somebody's AOL buddy list? This little program will allow you end your pain. This implements a special packet that was found in the AOL IM client TestBuddy.

Simply by typing in your username, password, and the user's nickname who has you on their list... you can remove yourself from that list.

Use at your own risk. I've tested it on my AOL account and it seams to work.