I am not quite sure what is going on here, but I feel that this is unexcusable for such a respected site. Although my experience with the members has been a pleasant one, I can not tell you how upsetting this was. I feel that this MUST be worked out for me and future or current users of AntiOnline.
Welcome to AO, Niels. One of AOs "features" is that member can "rate" other members for whatever reason they want. The original purpose of the AP system was to allow members to deal with trolls, those annoying little wannabes that go around posting about how their ex-g/f is cheating on them and they want to know how to hack hotmail/yahoo/etc. Since then the AP system has grown to be a part of AO, like it or not.

But to let this one thing upset you, strikes me as a bit over the top. It's just a message. I have seen users who were at two red dots (far worse than where you are) and they are now sowing many little green dots with lots of leprecauns. So, if I may humbly suggest, read the comments in the APs, make a note of it, send a PM to those you're not sure on or want clarification on, learn from it and go forward. There is so much more to AO than the Mr. Miyagi message.

Now that said, you seem to find the message "bothering". How else would you suggest we change the message to warn people that their present direction of activities may be taking them to a banned account?