well...what do you expect a welcome party with instructions on how to configure your browser to not accept any activ-x scripts and other **** like that?(no offence intended) the thing about the net you have to understand...its a "controled jungle" so you still have a chance of not getting hurt...you can hide and lurk all day but eventually something will spot you and like a predator to its prey, it pounces unexpectedly, unmercilessly...

...yea mate...look at this beuti...shes a big-un, an she wont give up without a fight...what you have to remember is her head is at one end and the tail is at the other....

sorry, out of character experience...but as always i do hope this helps someone out there...