I rarely get pissed

No, I was going to say that first off: I didn't ban him. And secondly: you even seem to have forgotten that you got more than one warning, that you were given more than one chance to change your posting behaviour. How would anyone expect you to know what you're talking about when you're referring to someone else's banning when you forgot about what happened to yourself?

And there's a huge difference between Deb and MsM's signature and what some other members came up with. People try pushing the line sometimes, and that's fine. But don't go whining when that line turns in to a big stick and smacks you. And that's exactly what you've been doing since the day you got banned.

Back on topic:
Either we let anything slip, let AO turn into a MA-rated website, and loose a bunch of contributing members.
Or we set some guidelines, and loose a bunch of bored teenagers who only care about pushing the lines.

Pretty clear, no?