Just as an update ( i hate open ended posts)...

I changed his password, scoured his system, updated all his stuff, etc. It now seems to be working fine. He is now getting his emails and they are not going anywhere. I did turn off his empty trash bin automatically option in case he did deleted them by accident.
I did get a few spam email returns when his email came back up. Different names attached to his email address, that type of thing. All of them seemed to originate in Korea. I think all the blocks, etc were keeping that contained but i will continue to monitor it.
I got my system back up and running also. I had to reload IE (some websites in the house will not load on Opera, etc.). but all is working well now. No more issues with pages not loading etc.
thanks for all the help. :thumbsup

Len