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Good question, good subject. As far as my advice, here goes. Personally, I'm more of a "I go after what I want" kind of person - in this case, I'd probably just lay it all out on the table and see what happens. The girl needs to make a decision, and soon. It's not good for boy to be feeling like he does and able to do nothing about it - I'd lay it on the line and whatever happens will happen. If girl chooses boyfriend, boy should move on and try to forget about it - it would never work. If girl chooses boy, girl must drop boyfriend immediately and for good. But is it wise to be with someone who has a boyfriend yet does all this with boy? That's a decision boy must make. But life goes on no matter what, I know that fact very well.

I'm 22 years old; fairly young, but I've experienced a lot through these years - from all of the ladies I've gone out with, I've loved one - I dated the love of my life for almost two years, and was almost to the point of proposing to her - then due to circumstances out of my control, she left and seemingly forgot about us and everything we had experienced. But I got over it, and moved on with my life - I've been dating my present girlfriend for a few months now, and its all good.

Love can be good to you, love can be bad to you - having experienced both sides of love, I learned from the past. Sometimes you have to do what is in your heart; trust yourself, everything will fall into place.