Unfortunately a new invisible program is not the answer.

To keep this short. My wife and I are planning(seriously, never thought I would buy pregnancy tests off the net =P) on having children, and I plan on getting my son/daughter computer literate as soon as possible. But I want to be there ever step of the way.

If I feel at anytime that my child is in danger(whether it be in real life or on the net) thats were I step in. If I see that my child is going onto chat rooms and talking suggestivly or is getting comments from others on 'meeting places' thats when I pull the plug. If I'm not around, no computer, until my child understands that those kind of people are dangerous and should be avoided. Until then the cat5 and nic card are being locked up(literally)

We would not drive our children to 'bad' areas of town because they want to meet someone.
Perhaps a bad analogy, but I think it make my point.

Alright I'm done on the subject. No more opinions from me. I'll do some research and see what measures are in place in my community, and support those in place and advocate for new ones.