Net Relationships

[4ChecK]

i never had any net relationship. unless you count keeping in touch w/old friends you have moved on to different states and countries.

but in any romantic relationship, either net or in person, is worth the effort. sometimes seeing your partner everyday can wear you down just as much as distance can. basically all relationships require some sort of work. my aunt met her present husband on line. obviously that has worked out. they even run a very succesful business together.

just one question: is the object of a net relationship to find a person that give good mind?

[jezter6]

Guess this is where ya get a pro's opinion.

Yes, I have met chicks online.
Yes, I married her 3 years after we met online.
Yes, I had one child (who is 3 now) with her.
Yes, I got divorced.

No, I will never do it again.

[backslap]

Did you ever have a net relationship just cause the person was sexually attractive? NO, because perhaps we shared common ups and downs, YES
Did you ever engage in cyber sex? YES
Did you ever tell someone only you loved them like that, and how many different people have u told that to online? Lust is best. Love takes time NO
Do you belive net relationships are for geeks and losers? NEVER It starts with a look, a word, something in common, a bad day and someone there to help.
Did you ever send naked or revealing pictures of urself online to others? Why sure, but only in return of the same.
Did you ever engage in phone sex with a person you met online? I think, need a more in depth thing here. Before, during or after we met? During, YES.
Are you in a net relationship now? Kinda, i will always be a seeker.
Did a net relationship ever work out to the point that u didnt regret it at all? Not yet.
We all need to reach out at times for help. Sometimes it's a hug from mom, a talk with a sister. sometimes it's someone chating that has a common problem. No matter were or when, there will always be a time we all need to bond.

[SarinMage]

no there not worth anything, there a away for people that are afraid of the oputside world to "pretend" ot have a social life, and interact with people in a healthy way. Relationships are not susposed to be built on the image you get from a personby talking to them online... people are MUCH different in person... Online you are able to hide many things about yourself, and even [pretend to be another person.

i wil lsay though, it is a good way to MEET prespective people....but thats about it.. it shoudlent be used to fuel a relationship... meet a person online, idealy in your own town, and then meet them in person.... dont let it be somehting thats jsut online... how will you know if there someone you can get along with on a regular basis...iof you only talk to them online.. and dont get to go places with them...

in my eyes its useless if yo ucant go see a damned movie or something.

[monoton]

Well I had a kind of "network relationship".

My ex-girlfriend works in Munich, I work in Hamburg and so we mostly communicated
over email, icq and phone but it doesnt work

We met in real live, we loved in real live but in real live it also died.

Network relationships are somewhat for dreamers I think.
It doesnt work, Im very sorry about it but it just doesnt work

[dAggressor]

My questions are simple and interesting... feel free to answer them or take the poll or both..

I think I will do both.......

Did you ever have a net relationship just cause the person was sexually attractive?

Of course, males tend to like things physical rather than emotional (most males, me included)

Did you ever engage in cyber sex?

Yes

Did you ever tell someone only you loved them like that, and how many different people have u told that to online?

No

Do you belive net relationships are for geeks and losers?

Yes, but why should geeks and losers have all the fun?

Did you ever send naked or revealing pictures of urself online to others?

Yes (pretty good if I do say so myself)

Did you ever engage in phone sex with a person you met online?

Yes (local of course)

Are you in a net relationship now?

No

Did a net relationship ever work out to the point that u didnt regret it at all?

Yes

Summary is life is to have fun. To experience life you must first live life. That means not restricting your wants or desires based on what you think people will say or think about you. It is your life to live, otherwise you would have a remote control to someone else's.

If it feels good do it, if it still feels good do it again.

Nuff said.

[Joey_Batch_File]

Originally posted here by Fakeboy
I AM IN LOVE WITH MY COMPUTER..... DOES THAT COUNT?

I have never had a Net Relationship, just a relationship we used the net to conversate through instead of a phone conversation while we were working. Although, I could relate to FakeBoy's comment....

[zaggy]

I have not had a sexual relationship on the net but have met some of the best friends of my life. We still chat, email, snail mail and call each other after 4 years. I have not been fortunate enough to meet any of them. I live rather far from them all.

It is nice to know that some ppl on the net have made successess of their relationships. Truly nice to see. Everyone I know had their net relationship turn into disaster for some reason.

Perhaps the same reasons their "real" relationships turned into disaster? I don't know.

Some ppl look for love on the net because they are lacking in self confidence and the anomynity is what they need. Others just sort of fall into it. Geeks and losers? I don't feel anyone is a geek, and losers are losers not because of anything to do with computers and the net, but because their personality dictates it.

[artencontrarte]

Net relationship are not different than real ones.
There are multiple variations in a real relationaship as well in a Net relationship.
It is the person that makes or helps the routing of the realtionship and not the media or where it is done.
Humans are the most important part of this matter, but of course the context is important., but not before the humans.
So the net is the media, we the people are the humans.
Jorge