Yeah, I'm not afraid to admit that I have come to a point on many occasions where I've had to cry - in fact, I'm crying right this moment... j/k but really, it's good to let go sometimes. As far as worrying about others judging you, I don't worry about that, and I try to help my wife with this when I can since other's opinions sometimes overwhelm her. But sometimes it's just good to listen. I don't try to fix or understand everything, it's impossible. Besides, women don't like to be fixed, like their broke or something...like trying to fix a car...a lot of men make this mistake, I think.