Hummm.... and you say your married to this guy? You should go injto your guest book and get rid of all the addresses so no harm can be done through that account. If someone asks, just tell them the truth that someone has stolen your account or is spoofing the address. If you keep your address nice and empty then eventually whoever has your account will get bored of stareing at nothing all day and eventually leave. You also might want to clean your temp. internet files. If it asks if you'd like to save the password click no.

BTW The password shouldn't be like a noun or a verb that can easly be found in any dictionary so try useing less common keys.