Actually MemorY cured me from caring about positive antipoints. I had just gotten my second dot by just a few points and came back to see how I was doing a couple of hours later and MemorY had negged me back down to 1 dot. (by mistake by the way.....he PMed me and told me he had hit the wrong button, and he made it up on a later post) That was the first time I had received any negs and it was a shock to my ego (not the last though....and I did desearve those///well maybe).
Since then they really haven't meant that much to me, although when I do make a good post I appreciate the comments.