hey thanks for the response, i guess i will look into the router also here are some examples of some of the attempts i get

A computer at adsl-68-122-208-97.dsl.irvnca.pacbell.net has attempted an unsolicited connection to TCP port 1025 on your computer.
TCP port 1025 is commonly used by the "network blackjack" service or program. The "Black Jack" port is used by many services -- it is the first high port available on your system.

A computer at adsl-68-122-208-97.dsl.irvnca.pacbell.net has attempted an unsolicited connection to TCP port 3127 on your computer.

A computer at adsl-68-122-208-97.dsl.irvnca.pacbell.net has attempted an unsolicited connection to TCP port 6129 on your computer.

A computer at d150-24-172.home.cgocable.net has attempted an unsolicited connection to UDP port 1026 on your computer.

A computer at d150-24-172.home.cgocable.net has attempted an unsolicited connection to UDP port 1026 on your computer.

A computer at adsl-68-126-104-222.dsl.sndg02.pacbell.net has attempted an unsolicited connection to TCP port 2745 on your computer.
TCP port 2745 is commonly used by the "URBISNET" service or program.

and thats what i constantly get usually from the same ip it attempts 3 to 4 times.

so do you think these scans affect my internet connection?