well i have cable internet, supplied by cox media.

well thanks alot for your help now i dont want to drag this thread with my redundant newbie questions so whats your final diagnosis and suggestion for my plan of attack? is my traffic of people exploring normal and i shouldnt worry about it? and if its not whats the next step of security the firewall router? also can i just like hide my ip so i wont even get attempts?

thanks for your help.