Hmmm...

I don't think I've read a post yet where someone was hitting on Autumn Regret, even though I can see making fun of some of the posts he/she/it's made (no, I don't validate anything until I see it myself) as they really haven't been relavent to this site (see the post on cognizant disonance (spelling?)).

Secondly, for the whole 'women like to have their own social aspects without their bf/husband/etc over their shoulder watching every keystroke': I have a network in the house with three computers, 2 windows (gaming) and 1 linux server. Her machine is the second windows box and she's got COMPLETE PRIVACY in EVERYTHING. I don't do anything on her machine unless it's maintenance and she knows that. I didn't even know she had guys hitting on her through AIM every day until she openly told me. I don't read email/icq/aim/etc on her machine as it's her privacy yet she sometimes has been staring over my shoulder because I'm talking to some chick about computers or something....where's the equality in that? It seems to be more of a one-way street, as far as I've been able to see.

Autumn: better get a grip on your guy...posers and fakers are liable to have a very hard time being taken credibly, after they "quit messing around" or stop "kidding around". "Kidder at heart" isn't what I would put my faith in.

Following the "what you see, what you read, what you hear is what you get" mentality has saved me a LOT of grief, afterall, if you're honest, you have nothing to hide. Deception has many faces whereas truth only has one (quoted off a video game box).