welll.... you could give them a server ... like over which server do you want to send the mail?....AOL ? - webmail.aol.com ..... you just have to know the server and what kind of a server the program needs .....

how webservers work ? - http://computer.howstuffworks.com/web-server.htm
how e-mail works? - http://computer.howstuffworks.com/email.htm

if you want to know how to send an anonymous e-mail read this thread by xXSilentEvilXx and the smart responses he gets.. so you might want to rething your mailing

http://www.antionline.com/showthread...ly+for+newbies