Hacking in not a cram and play game like thing. It is a serious study more than a research
I (& hopeully everyone) knows what frustrates a newbie. And the approach u r taking is not the right one
See if u study maths in school then the teacher will teach u one or two methods and will then ask u to solve the problem. There will be some problems that will use just one method and some which will use a combination of two or three methods. The same way hacking goes first u need to know the basics i.e How does an OS work, Networking and then languages and a lot other techniques.
No one becomes a hacker in just a short time (Rome was not built in a day)
So asking as to tell me step 1 then step 2 so on.... wont take u anywhere because no two systems are alike so how many steps r u gonna ask
Better read such forums and tutorials on os and networking & programming
Then talk to people who r into security to know how they proceed

Slowly & slowly u will get clear with things and then new ideas will start popping up in ur mind..
And then only will u be able to apply indegenious techniques
Else u will even go lower than a script kiddie level

Never shy from WORKING HARD