a coach a back in school told me that it takes more effort to defend ones self then to attack another.

when you think about it....... defence is like the balloon spread out verrrrry thin with little chane of getting every little thing and the attacker is the pin. all the pin needs is time and a week area. then........!boom! never being the same.

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when you here the same sounds from the same thing you learn how to make it a "white nose" then you are able to just put the thing out of mind. reminds me of a younger brother/sister.