Kiddies="teach me"
Hackers="let me teach myself"
If this is what you think then you are way off. Anyone with the will to learn can be a hacker, and sometimes it takes other people helping before you can learn to do it on your own. On the other when you teach yourself, sometimes you make things harder than they have to be and someone else can show you an easier way. This is my theory.

Kiddies="No will to learn just do without thinking"
Hackers="Will to learn and be taught"