Well oblio, I'll answer your question for you.

Some people have charisma, while others don't. Negative has charisma. Terr has charisma. You have it as well (you could, anyway). If you wanted to straighten up and contribute to this forum, you could easily become a respected member of this site. I'm not going to sit here and twist your arm, as histroy has proven that to be futile, but I would like you to consider what I'm saying here.