Ms. Mittens is right. I met this person years ago in a park. It is an obsession that has grown to monstrous proportions. In the beginning, based on what she told me, I think she had help from a cop friend who showed her how to get an unlisted phone number - this was in the 1980s. Later, she graduated to the phone company - I'm fairly certain she has insider help from someone in AT&T - won't go into that here.

I do not live in a dorm but in an apartment in a free standing dwelling. No one else has my door key other than the landlady. It's possible that someone picked the lock to gain entry to plant a bug, but I have no evidence of that, which is why I consider a bug to be an unlikely suspect although it easily comes to mind.

There is no legal remedy because I never knew her last name, her address, and I discarded her phone no. years ago. If I could open the phone record of incoming calls, going back a number of years, I could get her real number before she learned how to mask it. Because of the way the law is written, that cannot be done. That's what I've been told by legal counsel and my local police precinct.