it is def not to snoop on any one else it is just paranoia!

i can not believe that the new setup (modem-router) is as secure as my old setup (modem-pc-routuer) and here i could see all arp requests. etc....

i do fire up wireshark on computers and only see 'normal' traffic

but the router's 'internet is active' led still flashes like crazy even with all pc's off

just worried that is all